Sympathy verses to help you with that so-difficult-to-write bereavement message inside your condolence card for a bereaved friend or relation.
Here's a whole collection of these words of comfort to choose from. This compilation of verses, quotes and poems for this difficult time is here because I, myself, had spent time searching frantically for wordings to include in my handmade With Sympathy card. So I decided that I would have these bereavement words readily available for myself and others who need them fast.
For example, someone we know died and a sympathy card is bought or made and ready to be send to the bereaved family. But something is missing. We need to include a message inside the card and we just do not know what to say.
Well, this is where this page of bereavement verses will be helpful to you. Use these verses for sympathy cards here to help you add that personalized message of encouragement to those loved ones who are grieving and deeply feeling the lost of a loved one.
Some of these sympathy verses were contributed by wonderful readers of this cardmaking site.
You can shed tears that he is gone
Or you can smile because he lived
You can close your eyes and pray that he will come back
Or you can open your eyes and see all that he has left
Your heart can be empty because you can't see him
Or you can be full of the love you shared
You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday
Or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday
You can remember him and only that he has gone
Or you can cherish his memory and let it live on
You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back
Or you can do what he would want:
smile, open your eyes, love and go on
~ contributed by Marilyn Taylor (UK)
The clouds may cover the sky today,
but the love that shone through your loved one
whilst on earth will shine for all eternity
through the clouds from heaven above
and fill you with warmth and light again.
~ contributed by Sheila Morgan (UK)
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Thinking of you and praying for you at this time of loss.
Although we did not know your loved one,
we do know you, and therefore grieve with you.
With much love and prayers, (signature)
~ contributed by Julia Keirns (USA)
This is the first page of comforting words, quotes and poems for your condolence cards. The second page of bereavement verses can be found by clicking here.
I hope that these two pages of sympathy cards verses will be a great help to you in writing that so-difficult-to-express words for your condolence cards.
With Our Sincere Sympathy.
May you find comfort in knowing that your loved one touched the lives of so many others and gave them the gift of many happy memories.
Although no words can really help
to ease the loss you bear,
just know that you are very close
in every thought and prayer.
May God light your way and give you comfort.
May the love of those around you
help you through the days ahead.
Please don't cry or grieve for me, I've not gone very far -
I've stepped into a lovely room and left the door ajar.
~ contributed by Carol Wilcox (UK)
In Deepest Sympathy!
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
God takes our loved one's from our homes,
but never from our hearts.
~ contributed by James Reid (UK)
It's hard to know what to say, except that you are thought of in friendship and in sympathy.
We have to go through bad times in life to get to the better times, so remember it takes rain to make beautiful rainbows and just hold on in there!
~ contributed by Justin James
May happy memories of your loved one
help bring you through this sad time.
~ contributed by Julie Rule (Australia)
Hoping your treasured memories
bring you comfort day by day.
I wish I knew what to say
to make things better
but sometimes words
just aren't enough.
Into each life some rain must fall
but sunshine does appear.
It brings with it a rainbow
and a message that is clear.
Please know that you are not alone
that we all hold you dear
Let faith and hope into your heart
and keep your memories near.
May happy memories of your loved one help bring you through this sad time.
~ contributed by Alexandre Ntshielol (Congo)
I don't doubt that you can do it alone,
but why should you have to?
I'm here for you
just as you've been there for me.
It's hard to know what to say,
except that you are thought of
in friendship and in sympathy.
Keeping you in our prayers,
and trusting that God will bring you
comfort in the days ahead.
Gone from our sight
but never from our memories
or our hearts.
He shall be greatly missed.
I know your life is tough right now...
and I wanted to say
that I'm thinking of you
with love and support.
It will be the little things you remember,
the quiet moments, the smiles, the laughter.
And although it may seem hard right now,
it will be the memories of these little things
that help push away the pain
and bring the smiles back again.
Know that the Lord
has welcomed your loved one
into His home in Heaven.
In Warmest Sympathy.
Below are a collection of Sympathy Verses that Wendy Banker from USA had compiled and sent to me to be included here.
A little hug to say, "I'm sorry."
As time gently eases your grief,
may beautiful memories restore the joy
that has been taken from your heart.
Every exit is an entry somewhere.
~ Tom Stoppard
God's love lights the way and turns the darkness into day.
Death leaves a heartache
no one can heal,
love leaves a memory
no one can steal.
Expressing sympathy is never easy...
All we can say is how sorry we are.
God gave us memories that we might have roses in December.
Each time we embrace a memory,
we meet again with those we love...
for the heart never forgets.
~ Flavia
Gently, lovingly...
the unseen presence of God
will surround you in your sadness.
Interesting sympathy verses, quotes and poems can be found on tombstones at graveyards. Here's one!
From a headstone in Ireland
"Do not stand by my grave and weep
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow
I am the diamond glints on snow
I am the sunlight on ripened grain
I am the soft refreshing rain.
When you awake in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
of quiet birds in circled flight
I am the stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry
I am not there, I did not die."
After some research, I found that the above poem was written by Mary Elizabeth Frye, (1905-2004) - an American woman who wrote this poem when she was consoling a young German Jewish woman who had just heard of the passing of her mother but wasn't able to be at her funeral. This happened just before the Holocaust at a time when there was much buildup of anti-Semitism.
Below is said to be the original words for this poem which because of the repeated phrase used is referred to as "I Am".
Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there, I do not sleep
I am in a thousand winds that blow
I am the softly falling snow
I am the gentle showers of rain
I am the fields of ripening grain
I am in the morning hush
I am in the graceful rush
Of beautiful birds in circling flight
I am the starshine of the night
I am in the flowers that bloom
I am in a quiet room
I am the birds that sing
I am in each lovely thing
Do not stand at my grave and cry
I am not there I do not die
For a more detailed writeup about the poet, Mary Elizabeth Frye and why and how this poem was written, visit here.
I feel for parents devastated by the death of their babies or even a still-born. Here are two sympathy verses that are for such a situation.
Although no words can really help
To ease the loss you bear
Just know that you are very close
In every thought and prayer.
An angel opened up the book of life,
to record the baby's birth,
and whispered as she closed the book
"Too beautiful for earth".
ONE OR THE OTHER
One or the other must leave,
One or the other must stay.
One or the other must grieve,
That is forever the way.
That is the vow that was sworn;
Faithful til death do us part.
Braving what had to be borne,
Hiding the ache in our heart.
One, howsoever adored,
First must be summoned away.
That is the will of the Lord,
One or the other must stay.
~ by William & Katherine Karnopp
submitted by their grandaughter Marnae Niemann (USA)
Life brings tears,
smiles and memories.
The tears dry,
the smile fades,
but the memories
live on forever.
May memories
of your (insert relationship - e.g. father, mother, or use Loved One)
be a comfort to you
at this time.
May each new day
ease the burden
of your sorrow.
May it brings you solace
to know how many lives
have been deeply touched
by your {loved one}.
May it comforts you to know
that your loved one is safe
in God's care now...
and that friends
are praying for you
in your time of sorrow.
Life can be so hard sometimes
and I'm sorry to see you hurting.
May it comforts you
to know friends
are thinking of you
and remembering you
in their prayers.
May hope sustain you,
Friends surround you,
And love give you strength.
May beauty live on
in your memories
and bring you peace.
With Deepest Sympathy.
May the comfort
of family and friends
give you strength
for today
and the day to come.
May it helps in some way
to know that friends
are sharing the sorrow
in your heart.
May these words
of sympathy and understanding too,
bring comfort on the loss
of one so very dear to you.
May those beautiful yesterdays
always remain in your heart,
and your sorrow gently fade away.
May words of comfort
rest gently upon your heart,
and in time may they become
words of healing.
May time ease the pain
that no words can.
May you be comforted today
by the caring thoughts
of those around you.
May time soften the pain
until all that remains
is the comfort
of memories and love.
May you find comfort
in knowing your loved one
is with God -
resting in perfect peace.
May you find comfort
in the knowledge
that others care
and sympathize with you.
May you find the courage
to face tomorrow
in the love
that surrounds
you today.
No matter how old we are,
losing a mother
is one of the deepest sorrows
a heart can know,
but her goodness,
her caring
and her wisdom
live on...
like a legacy of love
that will always
be with you.
Perhaps life is but a journey
leading to the perfect home...
So sorry for your loss
May you find peace
in God's promise
of eternal life.
Our love
is measured
by the pain
we feel
at the loss.
So sorry about your father
Although you will miss him
and long for his presence
and all of the warm family times you've had...
just try and remember
through all your sorrow
you have every reason to smile and be glad...
you wouldn't be feeling exceptional sadness
if you hadn't had an exceptional dad.
Please know how much you are loved
and how deeply your loss is felt by all.
May you find strength
in your faith,
comfort in God's love,
and peace in knowing
your friends are praying
for you.
May your warm memories
give you comfort
at this time of sorrow.
Our prayers are with you
and it is my hope
that you will find
the strength and fortitude
to heal as you mourn
this terrible, terrible tragedy.
Our sympathy
and warmest thoughts
are with you now.
Perhaps they are not stars in the sky,
but rather openings where our loved ones
shine down to let us know they are happy.
~ An Eskimo Saying
Please know you are
in our thoughts and prayers.
Praying for friends to comfort you,
faith to uphold you
and loving memories
to help you smile again.
The angels are always near
To those who are grieving,
To whisper to them,
That their loved one,
Is safe in the hand of the Lord...
The sorrow of the faithful
is not that of permanent loss,
but the tender sense of sadness
that comes in saying
good-bye for now,
to someone we love.
There is so little we can say
at a time of loss like this
but know that my heart
goes out to you.
Remembering with you...
the life of someone so dear.
Sharing in your sorrow,
Thinking of you
and wishing I could be there
to hold your hand.
Sharing in your sorrow
and wishing you strength
in the days ahead.
Tenderly...
May God's love heal your sorrow.
Gently...
May the prayers of friends
ease your hurting.
Softly...
May God's peace replace your heartache
with warm and loving memories.
Thinking of you
Thinking of you
and wishing you
brighter days ahead.
Sending deepest sympathy
and heartfelt thoughts.
Sending a gentle hug your way,
to comfort you and to let you know
that you're on my mind and in my heart
today and always.
Sharing your sadness.
Gone from our sight,
but never our memories.
Gone from our touch,
but never our hearts.
The road we're on is twisted, Lord,
The end defies the view.
Teach us to take each step in faith
And leave the rest to You.
The tide recedes but leaves behind bright seashells on the sand,
The sun goes down but gentle warmth still lingers on the land,
The music stops and yet it echoes on in sweet refrains...
For every joy that passes,something beautiful remains
Someone new has entered
our eternal home above -
the heavenly gate has opened
to welcome one you love.
We cannot help the tears that fall -
our hearts need time to grieve
when earthly life has ended
and a loved one has to leave.
Yet even in the saddest time,
we know our Savior lives,
and we can trust completely
in the promise that He gives -
that in a glad reunion with the Lord
our loved ones wait to welcome us
in joy with no more tears
beyond the gate!
The time had come for him to leave,
He did not want to go
But God had other plans for him,
He said, "I need you so."
So he has left this world of ours
And you're so very sad
But think of all your happy memories
And the great times that you had.
For memories stay in your heart
Forever and a day
So if you think of him often,
He'll never go away.
Below are a few poems and writing from poets, writers; known and unknown that you can use in your condolence cards or funeral readings.
These are sympathy verses and words I find very touching and comforting.
Remember me:
To the living, I am gone.
To the sorrowful, I will never return.
To the angry, I was cheated,
But to the happy, I am at peace,
And to the faithful, I have never left.
I cannot be seen, but I can be heard.
So as you stand upon a shore, gazing at a beautiful sea — remember me.
As you look in awe at a mighty forest and its grand majesty — remember me.
As you look upon a flower and admire its simplicity — remember me.
Remember me in your heart, your thoughts, your memories of the times we loved,
the times we cried, the times we fought, the times we laughed.
For if you always think of me, I will never be gone.
I cannot say and I will not say
That she is dead, she is just away.
With a cheery smile and a wave of hand
She has wandered into an unknown land;
And left us dreaming how very fair
Its needs must be, since she lingers there.
And you-oh you, who the wildest yearn
From the old-time step and the glad return-
Think of her faring on, as dear
In the love of there, as the love of here
Think of her still the same way, I say;
She is not dead, she is just away.
Departed comrade! Thou, redeemed from pain
Shall sleep the sleep that kings desire in vain:
Not thine the sense of loss
But lo, for us the void
That never shall be filled again.
Not thine but ours the grief.
All pain is fled from thee.
And we are weeping in thy stead;
Tears for the mourners who are left behind
Peace everlasting for the quiet dead.
Feel no guilt in laughter, he’d know how much you care.
Feel no sorrow in a smile that he is not here to share.
You cannot grieve forever; he would not want you to.
He’d hope that you could carry on the way you always do.
So, talk about the good times and the way you showed you cared,
The days you spent together, all the happiness you shared.
Let memories surround you, a word someone may say
Will suddenly recapture a time, an hour, a day,
That brings him back as clearly as though he were still here,
And fills you with the feeling that he is always near.
For if you keep those moments, you will never be apart
And he will live forever locked safely within your heart.
Don’t think of him as gone away
his journey’s just begun,
life holds so many facets
this earth is only one.
Just think of him as resting
from the sorrows and the tears
in a place of warmth and comfort
where there are no days and years.
Think how he must be wishing
that we could know today
how nothing but our sadness
can really pass away.
And think of him as living
in the hearts of those he touched…
for nothing loved is ever lost
and he was loved so much.
I hope and pray that the above sympathy verses will be of much help to you in your card messages.
Use these sympathy verses to bring comfort and encouragement or support for those who are going through a difficult time of loss.
And if you have any sympathy verses - quotes, words or poems that you like to include here, please feel free to send to me and I will add it to the above few verses.
Do make sure that they are not copyrighted materials.
Thank you very much.
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